When Lexi returns from The Other Side, she enjoys her time with Stefan and talks to him about moving on from Elena and how he will find someone else. So she said that to save Sarah's life, he had to turn his humanity off as well. Stefan calls Elijah and the original brother says that Elena is safe but how long that remains depend on them. He'll take it. He had nanny named Cordelia and his ex-fiance, Rosalyn Cartwright, was killed by a jealous Katherine. They open it to find a dead body of a man inside meaning Stefan is out and is hungry. In the novels, Stefan is an aristocrat and comes from a wealthy, noble family. He then calls Klaus and tells him that, despite fulfilling his promise and undoing the compulsions, he took everything from Stefan. "Hate me," Stefan says. She writes a note to her daughter Nadia. It takes him three tries of running into the door to open it. Stefan asks him if he really still wants to get the cure, because that means he could lose her and Damon says that this is a chance he's willing to take. She says she is happy that she has started over. As things begin to spiral out of control, Stefan was unexpectedly killed by Julian, a Traveler warlock, while trying to protect Caroline, but he was resurrected after Damon, Caroline and Elena's plan to bring him back from the Other Side is a success. Matt replies that yes, he is, and he hate that he has to threaten his friend. Later, At the hospital, Caroline talks to Stefan about their feelings for each other. Tyler takes Matt to Elena at the hospital, but Matt refuses her blood. In another Elena's vision Stefan was cooking her dinner for their anniversary. The car pulls up. Stefan explains to Tyler and Caroline that the bullets were specially carved, and that if he were a normal vampire instead of a hybrid, he would be dead. The next morning, Stefan woke up confused and dazed. Stefan is changing his clothes when Damon comes to his room telling him that Elena has gone and they have to go to her rescue but he doesn't know where she is, so they need leverage. As Stefan and Damon take off to put away Klaus' body they talk about Elena and Stefan mentions that if she chooses Damon he will go away and let them be happy. While most vampires are only able to cast a dream upon someone, Stefan has shown the ability to go beneath 'the surface' and interact with the subconscious manipulation of Sybil. Jeremy won't tell Stefan anything as he can't be trusted, and Stefan tries to compel him into revealing how far the mark has grown, Jeremy however stakes Stefan in the stomach, saying he can't be compelled anymore before leaving. The entire room is mesmerized with her rendition of "Hit Me With Your Best Shot," until Matt and Tyler enter. Family information He throws the stake past Stefan and into the throat of Jay, who was aiming a shotgun with wooden darts at them. In a flashback to 1863, Stefan is writing in his journal at a fair when he meets Valerie Tulle for the first time. Damon says that there's no way for Katherine to broke a deal with Klaus and Stefan realizes that she was going to make Elijah break the deal for her and that some things never change. While Stefan instructs Elena on using vampire speed, she is distracted by Stefan's touch. In Crying Wolf, Stefan brought Elena to a lake house where Elena and her adoptive family used to go. There's a bright white light, and Katherine seems to go into it. When he returns, they clink glasses before Charlotte arrives, with a bloody corpse in her arms. Stefan is concerned that if they do that Klaus and Rebekah will go after them and Elena responds that in this case Stefan will use the dagger on the original sister and Bonnie will be able to deal with Klaus. In The Simple Intimacy of the Near Touch. He asks her out about the man that was looking for them, but she give him a straight answer. Gloria later says that what she saw in her vision bothered her, that the girls she saw were talking about him. Unfortunately, Klaus then used compulsion one last time and ordered Stefan to turn his emotions off. Back at the Salvatore boarding house, Stefan enters Elena's mimd. Rayna tells him that there is a plan B. It was assumed that Stefan's sense of fashion changed with the times. On one such night of revelry, the club was attacked by what appeared to be the police. At the end of the fourth season, Stefan ends up heartbroken when the sire bond is broken and Elena still decided to choose Damon over him. Stefan plans to go back to Mystic Falls, the last place he wants to be to take revenge from Enzo for killing Ivy. He tells her that when he is with her the blood thirst disappears and he feels better. "It doesn't fucking matter! Upon meeting each other, Stefan and Elena are instantly, undeniably drawn to each other and the two instantly connect. The car lunges backward a few feet, but Luke stands behind the car, with his hand outstretched as well. When they are on the road with Katherine and stop to tank, Katherine breaks his car, so they would be forced to wait until it is repaired. Silas however refuses to help them because he prefers Amara dead and gone to the other side so he can reunite with her. In We All Go a Little Mad Sometimes, Stefan shows up at the Gilbert House after receiving a call from Damon that Elena had stabbed and killed Jeremy. then Damon hands him a paper which reads Valerie LaMarche, Stefan looks up curiously and Damon tells him she was the witch who helped break the sire bond. The Vampire Diaries Wiki is a FANDOM TV Community. At first, it seems as if Klaus' compulsion made it so that he didn't care, but he eventually agrees to lure Klaus to Mystic Falls. She responds that if he try's to flip her switch back on they would see a whole other side to her. Stefan talks with Lexi of how it works with Vaughn being dead again. Appearance After Lexi disappears, Stefan asks Elena if she's given up, but Elena says no, but Stefan couldn't either, because he would lose her if he did, she would not love a ghost. They look at the professor's stuff and Stefan is amused by Rebekah's cultural knowledge. In Ghost World, after Bonnie casts a spell revealing all of the ghosts, Lexi appears. Elena, Damon and Alaric later formulate a plan to catch Stefan off guard and lock him up, to try and restore him to his normal self. Elena volunteers to say a few words in Pastor Young's memory as Damon enters the church. Rebekah admits that Stefan is actually fun tonight and he responds that he can't listen to the 80's music without thinking of Lexi. Stefan looks horrified as the vampire is revealed to be Charlotte, having counted every single brick in New Orleans, waiting for Damon. In Because the Night, Damon and Stefan talk on the phone and Stefan asks his big brother what are him and Elena doing in New York. After Beau stops the pain, Lily wonders about the deal that was made and Stefan remains oblivious to Malcolm's death until Lily tells him. Stefan tells Klaus about the Heretics, the siphoning twins and Caroline giving birth to the them. In Pictures of You, Stefan and Damon are throwing football in the living room and asks Stefan how long has it been eight or nine days since Elena killed anyone, Stefan says that he lost count and Damon says that's progress and Stefan asks what are they going to do keep throwing the football around for another 150 years until Elena gets her humanity back, Stefan sarcastically says he's cool with that and Damon says that Elena doesn't want the cure and she's going to start killing people if she knows they're still trying to get it for her Stefan says the could always make her want it Damon asks how are they going to make an emotionless vampire want anything Stefan says to get her to flip her humanity switch, Damon asks what are they going to do pull a Lexi, Bombard her with emotions until one of them sticks and Stefan says if that doesn't work they go to plan B lock her and keep her sidelined they he and Damon figure out a plan C, Damon asks what when she gets slammed with every emotion she's repressed since Jeremy died Stefan says that then Damon will be right by her side ready to help her through it and Damon says because Stefan doesn't want to keep reliving history and when its all over he's just going to get out of her life, Stefan says "bingo" and Damon asks him how does he wants to do it. Tyler comes in to announce the problem of the week. As he drives to bury Silas, Lexi is with him and they talk about where Stefan will go and Lexi tells him that Elena will always be his epic love and he will find another, but he has to let go and move on. Stefan wakes up and tries to stop Damon from going after Lily so that they could find Valerie. Elena's own compassion and kindness are very important to Stefan. She sees a figure, who she assumes to be Markos, and she starts trembling in fear. The elder Salvatore also adds that Elena doesn't know the real reason behind this trip and Stefan says that when she understands she'll bolt. Stefan smiles and says he did have some help with it. He says that Damon was never on his side. As Tyler arrives, Rebekah provokes him into transforming, compelling Elena, Stefan and Caroline not to 'vamp run' in the hallways. They leave the room so that Connor can't listen to their conversation, and Stefan asks Klaus about the Five. Stefan responds that he was a psychotic killer with no emotions back then and Rebekah disagrees by saying that he might have been a killer, but he wasn't emotionless, to which Stefan admits that he really did have fun. Then, Jamie came to protect Elena but Stefan compels him to leave. This was not the case when Stefan was a human. Stefan says he's angry, and he wants to kill Julian for hurting Valerie. Alaric wants Damon to tell Stefan about the cure. Stefan has been engaged twice, once to Rosalyn Cartwright and another time to Bridget Sutherland. Stefan tells him that it's not a good time. Stefan says that she's starting to lose it and asks if he had found Bonnie. Matt pretends to console Elena while she feeds from his neck. Although Stefan was very popular and had many male friends during his human life, Stefan always considered Damon to be his best friend and companion. She suggests it must be April Young, who was missing, and that they have to help her. They then planned a course of action to get around the guards who were on watch for the vampires, and eventually made it to the cage where Katherine was being held captive. He almost always respects women's (namely Elena) choices and decisions, even if he doesn't agree with them. Bonnie tries to write a message to Damon but Enzo grabs her phone, Enzo calls Damon and asks him for Stefan's diaries , Damon says that Stefan burned his diaries, and then Enzo says that he will kill Stefan because he was the one who killed his girl in the 60s, Damon tries to tell him that Stefan wasn't a Ripper in that decade but Enzo hangs up the phone. Over dinner, Caroline and Enzo interrogate Stefan through polite dinner conversation. He has saved her several times and cares about her. In The Ties That Bind, When Bonnie shows Elena the coffins, Stefan gets angry because Elena shouldn't have seen those. In She's Come Undone, Stefan and Damon are at the house with Elena locked in the safe and Damon playing mind games with her for over an hour and still no emotional response from Elena, Later Stefan is Caroline and she wants to see Elena and Stefan said they are not letting anyone see her and that it was whole point of locking her isolation leads to misery and lead to emotion, Caroline says that she's been there for days and hasn't improved at all Stefan says that she doesn't want to not yet and that she's devastated she's lost her brother, she attacked her friend Bonnie and killed an innocent woman and Caroline said that Stefan knew how to help her Stefan said that he is helping her and Caroline asks him by torturing her and Stefan says its not torture but an intervention and the only chance they have with her is to provoke her to trigger something fear, anger, self-pity or anything Caroline asks Stefan to let her talk to Elena before anymore intervention and that Elena can't hurt her if she's weak and begs him to let her try, later Caroline is with Elena at the basement Stefan wishes her good luck and leaves her with Elena, Caroline says the she brought something for Elena and pulls a vial of blood and gives it to Elena so that it could help think straight and she also adds that she doesn't agree with what Stefan and Damon are doing to her making her suffer to turn her humanity back and its not who Elena is, Caroline says she's not giving up on her and Elena starts to provoke her about that she's the reason that Tyler left town and the he was running from her and not from Klaus and about how pathetic she's going to look in the cap and gown and that she's a repulsive, blood-sucking control freak monster and Elena is attacking Caroline and she breaks Elena's neck and Stefan is behind her and tells him to do what he has to do, later Stefan and Damon are in a room with Elena tied up to chair and they took her daylight ring and they plan on using sunlight to torture her and as Stefan slowly opens the curtain Elena asks if she's supposed to feel scared and Stefan said that she will be and to focus on that fear because its the key to getting her humanity back and she says that they are not gonna burn her and adds that if they get her humanity back she'll remember that they tortured her and she'll hate them for it, Damon says to work risk and Stefan opens the curtain and Elena's skin is burning and Damon extinguishes the fire and asks for any emotion so they can stop it and Elena says that she's going to kill them, Stefan says that they don't want to torture her and she can stop it and its her choice, Elena is provoking Stefan for being the one to pull back the curtain and a part of him enjoys it considering that she dumped Stefan, Damon believes that they are breaking through the tough shell and getting to the center of her humanity and asks Stefan to shed some light into the situation, Stefan is ready to reopen the curtain and Elena says its going to hurt Stefan more than it hurts her Stefan says he knows what she's going through and that she's afraid to face the guilt she feels if she turns her emotions back on and the only way to help is to make the alternative hurt even worse and Stefan opens the curtain and Elena is in pain, later Elena is still in pain from exposure to sunlight Stefan closes the curtain and Damon says she'll thank him someday and after she gets her humanity she'll know that life without emotions blew and she provokes Damon by telling him that the sire bond also blew and going everyday believing that she was in love with him and saying that he was afraid that it wasn't real and says that it wasn't, Elena says to keep torturing and she and Stefan might give their relationship another go and she exposes herself to sunlight Stefan and Damon extinguish Elena from the flames and she says that they won't hurt and she doesn't have to afraid of anything, later Stefan and Damon are at the driveway Stefan sarcastically says that it went well and Damon is frustrated that Elena is being stubborn and doesn't want to turn it back on, even though every vampire does it with out any problems Stefan says that she has nothing to come back to after she lost her home and her family and destroyed her relationships, Damon said that scaring her should have worked and that she's smart and she knows that they won't hurt her and Stefan suggests to bring someone who really will hurt her Damon asks who, Stefan suggests Katherine because she is the reason Jeremy is dead and she's the only who can provoke an emotion into Elena and Damon says that Katherine won't help them Stefan says the she was just abandoned by Elijah and that she has nothing and has no one and that she won't refuse their offer to torture Elena, later Damon and Katherine are discussing what will happen if Elena goes back to her old self when Stefan says the Elena is not in the cell and its revealed that Katherine lost interest in Elena's recovery and didn't lock her in Stefan with Damon and Matt search for her, later Stefan stops Elena for feeding on Matt and Damon has had enough and he's done playing nice and tells her to turn her humanity switch or he'll kill Matt, Elena calls his bluff and he breaks Matt's neck and Elena is crying and she's sad about what happened to Matt and later is revealed to be wearing the Gilbert ring and will come back to life and Elena gets her humanity back, Damon says that she's going to be okay and she remembers what she has done and Stefan stops her and says the he knows the stage the emotions are over-whelming her and that she has to focus on one thing Elena says she can't and tells to find the thing that makes her strong and to latch on to it and channel everything she's feeling into one emotion and to let it in, Elena does what she's told and he tells her to breathe it in and blow everything else out and she's screaming in pain and Damon asks her if she's okay, she says "no" but she'll get better. Stefan tells Damon that he wants Elena to try the animal blood diet so that maybe she can avoid hurting or killing anyone, something that Stefan feels would be especially hard for Elena. They meet at the border of Mystic Falls to make the exchange. Tyler starts a fight, ending with him accidentally stabbing Matt. Then, they are tied to chairs by people compelled by Enzo, who has threatened Liv with killing her brother. She's angry at Stefan for not feeding her more. Stefan agrees and says that when they talk about denial he could say that in his head there was no way that Elena could stay a vampire forever, especially now when she doesn't have a family. He then tells him that Lily has Elena and Stefan angrily says Lily has everything. Eye color Everyone are surprised and Stefan says that they have to question Elijah's impeccable taste if he's friends with her. Stefan tells Jesse that he can smell the blood and he wants to drink it. It works. Stefan agrees to it and lets Matt take Elena. Caroline asks him where is the antidote and Enzo nods and a group of Travelers disperse through the stockyard. Damon is unimpressed by his brother's behavior, most importantly the way he is feeding off of girls in the house. Patient (2010)Unnamed Frat Boy (2016) (While body possessed by Ambrose)Violet Fell (2018) Stefan disagrees and asks her to open her mind to him. Stefan tells her that he didn't tell her the truth about Enzo because he know that they had a weird little chemistry thing, Caroline laughs telling him that he's delusional and Stefan then admits that he didn't want her to think any less of him.