First 2 years he was in and out. Dont try to make him jealous when he is ignoring you to get his attention. So if you think this is an ideal match, its not. You don't want inconsistency in your life, trust me. When in doubt, ask him directly. While this gives them a childlike quality that is very endearing, it also means they can act pretty childish. However, as a couple, they are passionate, enthusiastic, and fiery. I have a ton more detail!! I called and left 1 message, a couple of texts and an email..and no reply. Something that can be seen in their temper tantrum, especially if they don't get their way. I finally asked if I was going to see him again when he got back into town and his response was "of course!!! That his lack of interest is a sign of incompatibility. So, they are very unpredictable men. I am a virgo female and met an Aqaurius and the connection is amazing, we can talk for hours and hours and not get bored. In fact, they are the things we can work on to make us a better person, the room for improvement. My last text to him was "oh forget it, like you always say it is what it is"I get the the hint Well when he got home "apparently he forgot his phone at home" he was not happy and let me know. So hard to figure out. Who knows, probably because they tend be so unpredictable, he may text and say something really crazy and want to "hook-up" again, and if that happens, then I'll deal with it when happens! Their no-filter authenticity pulls people towards them. Been with my Aries man, for 6 months. Im bout ready to throw my towel in on this one. We have been intimate this last year and we still remained close. I guess not cuz he hasnt called. A Pisces man is a caring, loving, and passive person. Im a genuine aqua man, and only thing i have to add for the ladies having troubles with their aqua man is just be as supportive as you can. Hes never going to believe you. She is pushy and playful, and breaking his emotional walls is a great challenge to her. His curiosity would wear off if you stress him out. Let them do them. Some of my friends tell me to make a move, but why would I do that? I'm great friends with an Aquarian guy who's 9 yrs younger to me. this man is the love of my life. we made each other nervous, he's too good looking and i'm a little older. This is the first step in his anger cycle. But he also say he loves me & tht Im his center. So we started a relationship. now that i look back we've been "dating" for 9 months, taking it ridiculously slow, barely starting to get to know each other. I don't have the patience for these strategic land mines. Still, to make their dates perfect, each should begin or end with a stop by an eclectic caf, outdoor preferably, where they can quietly talk and laugh about their time together and get to know one another. And sexy, and intelligent - and the chemistry is amazing. This disappearing thing they do has got be one of the most perplexing and annoying things they do, even though I completely understand the need for "alone time" and "freedom" because I'm a lot like this myself, but the other thing he does that makes me, like others, want to slap the snot out of him, is him not replying when you can be in the middle of a texting conversation, and POOF, he's vanishes no into thin air, and you have no fricken idea WHY or what the heck is going on, and when you do ask you get no reply, which is just so immature and disrespectful, or at least that's how it comes across, and this just drives me nuts, nuts, nuts!!! he tells me how much he loves my company. i know its not the beat time to meet someone this way but we did. I love this man more than love could love itself. When an Aquarian disappears they will often without warning or explanation, cut off all contact and retreat into their own world. But i just made it worse on me. There's a difference between a person who keeps putting in work because they care about you and another who's just using you because he's aware you'd be available. When he changes, if he changes, it'll be because he decided to, not that you made him. His laid-back passivity gives her permission to slow down and relax. I guess my response to it was emotional and wanting answers which obviously didn't take well to because now he will not talk to me whatsoever. Required fields are marked *. Why does he pull me in with one hand then another push me away?? I have so many things to say but it hurts to talk about. This background check and communications tracker tool will reveal all the secret stuff thats going on behind your back. When angry or hurt they arent afraid to burn a bridge or twoeven if theyll regret it in a few hours. Just stay patient. he dumped me! When he should be the one saying he loves me? The good thing is a Pisces man is more than willing, and even prefers, the Aries woman is her self-reliant, independent self. Let go and Move on. actually, they just want to have freedom, im sure what theyre doing right now, is doing other things. Do you feel like he kind of takes you for granted? Previous to that I had only had one date in 5 years after separating from a long term relationship. So I text him yesterday/today. ALSO, my 4th house is also in Aquarius also, heightening my respect for Aquarius in general. But what about when he hurts me? We don't like making train wrecks, but often do it anyway. So we talked pretty intently-but about politics and ethnics, his favorite stuff. It is a time of friendly, casual fun, getting to know one another, and testing the waters to see where the relationship might go, but it's also a time of high expectations and when the man and woman are on their best behavior. He told me I will always have an upper hand over other girls because he knows me better and feels comfortable with me. Aries and Taurus Compatibility - 12 months. lol. He will come back because hes trying to eat his cake and have it. I chose to not be called one constantly. Aquarius guys want what they can't have. The key to an Aquarius man is to not take any crap from them. How do I get him to put into our relationship, of not to match what I have put in, but at the very least five just a little bit if what I have been specific about, in some way?? Even while dating, this couple will never be short on romance. At the center of "The Disappearing Act" is an impetuous British actress named Mia Eliot, who flies to Los Angeles for high-stakes auditions. As a passive feminine sign, Taurus men are receptive. I have never met anyone like this that is so hard to relate to, its almost like I feel like I have to concur this man before I can end it. He can definitely fall in love with the Aries female. Being a fire sign always indicates a woman who is creative in unique ways. I am happy not see him every week, or talk every day, that would suit me, but I do need to see him sometimes! So, I'm a 22 y/o cancer woman dating a 25 y/o aqua man whom I met on a dating website. (It will probably help, better, knowing exact conversation (s). Her "just do it" way of living sparks him to act on his dreams and imaginings. I have been seeing an Aquarius off and on for three years now. "Aries lives very much in the moment, which means they don't typically pine after exes . My aquarius ex stopped contacting me on 21/9/13- he texts me on 01/11/13 saying hi- I left it 3 hours and just replied saying hello- I have had nothing again- shall I just forget and move on. After breaking plans, he might not talk or respond to you for days or weeks. I have been with an aquarious for 6 years. He was sleeping. Anyway I felt his wonderful aura and even though he was distant towards the end of our little fling it was still there. Been dating this Aquarius for almost a year and its the slowest process ever! We talk almost every day, into the night, and we have talked about EVERYTHING. Required fields are marked *. As everything he says and does indicates that he has always loved me also and still does. ?WTF This is after he has been hiding out at a undiclosed location saying that he need to be alone to grieve about his son,,,So I get thatbe alone, move out leave me with the rent sucked it all up, than I find out that he hasnt been alone has been hangin out with all kinds of friendsanyway he shows up last night while a very good girlfriend who showed up and I wanted her to meet him,,,they met and he acted like a total dick to herwhen she left he asked me what have you been telling her about me because she couldnt look me in the eye? He didn't like any of them. whats he thinkin?? So there you have it, five signals that hell give off when hes not into you. I love him so much more than I let on. Astrology can let you learn more about someone you recently met. He says he loves me, but not on the same level that I love him. its all good and fair. Is it normal when Aries man acts distant? He always accusing me of lying & cheating but Im in his presence @ all times. I will get bored and feel unloved and move on with a quickness and not look back. Related:All about Ignoring an Aquarius Man (How, Why, When). What to expect from this aries man? All via text. See? Additionally, both individuals are more than their Sun signs. He popped up and called me like it was nothing. As an aquarian woman I am currently dating an aquarian man but with my confidence and indepence, it swifts him off his feet. The answer to these questions would help you draw a done line between a man who cares for you and keeps showing up and the one who shows up to take advantage of you. Well, after feeling like "I" need to watch what I say, how I say it, when I say itblah, blah, blahI've made a decision that it's just way too much work, and too frustrating to do this, and being an Aries, I march to the beat of my own drum, and to HAVE to try and do all this just to have someone in my life is utterly ridiculous to me, and I've just had enough!!! If he sees that your life is not all around him, I bet you he will make a u-turn and start chasing after you because he does not want to loose you. He might not admit it, but social clout is important to him. An Aries woman is someone who always needs attention from her friends and family. He was very insecure person,he always thought i was doing something wrong. No matter how wild and out of reach your life goals may seem, follow them, work for them, and never give up on them. Be a mystery and he'll stop worrying about relationships and commitments and go back to picking at your brain and looking at you with his head tilted. Big mistake. And if he calls and I decide to give him a chance (doubt it now) I will tell him if he disappears again to stay gone. He was talking up the future, and then 2 months later he was gone. Create a free birth chart here to . Worse I don't think I can deal with these periods where I am being made to feel like I'm his nextdoor neighbour, mate or sister. Period. I still don't kno whether v r datin, in a relationship etc etc and I'm afraid to ask as this myt ruin everythin(learnt frm my past). And I kept thinking if I just hung in there he would let me into that secret place that seems so special. He told me he's stressed out due to some things & avoiding talking to everyone.